Oh. Well, spotlight effect is a social psychology term, that basically means that we think more people are paying attention to us then they are, and we pay more attention to ourselves then anyone else. So, when you say that you're more selfish then everyone else, you may or may not be, but you'll always think you are, due to spotlight effect. Okay, those may be two separate things, but I'll need more coffee before I can think any more about social psych.
Bah. I made my choices, and for better or worse, I am what I am. I'm not apologizing for myself, so why are you?
Question mark? I just said it was understandable that you didn't remember. In what universe does that equate to me thinking you're a disappointment?
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Date: 2008-10-26 04:19 pm (UTC)Bah. I made my choices, and for better or worse, I am what I am. I'm not apologizing for myself, so why are you?
Question mark? I just said it was understandable that you didn't remember. In what universe does that equate to me thinking you're a disappointment?